Whomever you choose, make sure you are ready to except the man for who he is and not who you desire him to be. Make sure your Spiritual desires as well as physical and material desires align on a path of Union and not discord. Everyone deserves a life with someone that desires the best for their partner as well as themselves. No one should be selfish with their desires. No one should demand, control or manipulate the other to get what they want.
I was very surprised to see a beautiful Jewish Woman on this site. First, I'm very sorry for your loss. I am happy however that you decided it's alright to love again and move forward in your life. If you went on this site because you desired a relationship with an Asian man, I'm not your guy. Well I'm not your man most likely anyway. I'm 60, disabled, poor, kind, honest, trustworthy, caring and helpful when possible. Those qualities however are shared with everyone I know and meet. .
Your flesh is a mere object that will diminish of its beauty, essence and appeal over time. It is you Soul and spirit that directs your path in life that brings joy to you within and to others you share those blessings received with. You women speak of this desire but do not truly know how to live by this desire.
